Dying Alone

In the past two weeks I have talked with people who were not allowed to be with their loved one as that person suffered, and in some cases died, with COVID-19. 

The universal comment has been, “It’s heartbreaking.” In their time of greatest suffering, the patients and those who loved them were not able to be with one another.

What is it about separation that makes suffering more difficult? 

Jesus was Alone

During this Holy Week, we remember the final hours of Jesus’ life. We are reminded that, as the old spiritual says, he walked that lonesome valley by himself. 

As he stood trial in the home of the High Priest, his closest followers practiced social distancing farther than six feet.

In his time of greatest suffering on the cross, those who loved him most left him isolated. Without the presence of caring human connection, Jesus even felt that God had forsaken him (Mt. 27:46). 

We Need Each Other

In the past three weeks of distancing, isolation, and quarantine we have learned an important truth: We need each other. 

We need the touch of another person’s hand on our fevered brow. We need to hug those whom we love. 

Human contact touches our deepest emotional and spiritual needs. 

You Are Not Alone

Isolation is truly heartbreaking. We all need to know that we are not forgotten, that someone cares for us, that we are loved. We all need the tangible embodiment of the love of Jesus found in another person who offers comfort and care. 

Think of someone you know who lives alone, someone who rarely gets out to be with other people. Call that person to let them know they are not forgotten. When it is safe again, visit with that person. Show them you care for them. 

Be the presence of Christ in their time of isolation and loneliness.

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Greg Smith
Director of Legacy Ministry
First Baptist Church of Decatur