Creating a New Normal
Creating a New Normal
"In the rush to return to normal, use this time to consider which parts of normal are worth rushing back to." - Dave Hollis
I don't know who Dave Hollis is, but I saw this thought floating around on social media this week and it intrigued me. I'm an extrovert and I have been itching to get through this social distancing time so I can go places and see people and have church again, etc, etc, etc.
Yesterday as I was going on a long walk with my dog and husband--a new habit born out of #quarantine2020-- I realized I was turning a corner. My restless, social heart is beginning to settle into a new routine. I'm beginning to find peace and solace in the current reality of a new day-to-day schedule. Working from home, along with my husband, usually sitting on the couch with my dog or cat, cooking or grilling dinner. Spending time outside, working with my hands in some dirt, taking the time to call my family (and not just when I'm in the car). I'm happy and thankful to have had the opportunities to set these habits during this time of social distancing.
Let me acknowledge my privilege here. So many people have not been given the option to work from home by their employers. Many have lost jobs or hours. Many in retail, delivery, or medical fields are working overtime. I'm so thankful for these people and my prayers are with you. At the very least, though, all of our social lives are likely looking a little different these days.
I have done some thinking about what new habits I'd like to carry with me back into normal--whenever that time arrives. But the thought from Dave Hollis intrigues me. What parts of normal should I not return back to?
I *miss* community. I miss church and game nights at friends' houses and going to the movies. But the rush of busyness of the old pace of my life? My itching need to go do something--anything--just to get out of the house? I don't know that I want to go back to all of it. We have been handed the opportunity to take inventory of our habits-- the things we spend our time, money, and energy on. What will you take with you into the new normal and what will you leave behind for good?
Kelsey Lewis Vincent is the Pastor for Youth and Families at First Baptist Decatur. You can follow her on Twitter where she posts about faith, succulents, and her adorable dog, Karl Bark.